Posts by Matt
Get to the Cake Even If the Frosting is Good
For all of the readers out there who enjoy a slice of cake, I want you to imagine your favorite flavor of cake. Is it strawberry? Is it chocolate? Is it something else? Good. Now for the sake of this exercise, everyone gets their delicious frosting on top of this cake. You get to imagine [...]
On Momentum
[Thank you for MLK for all that he did. Monday was a holiday that celebrated him in the United States, so I decided to write for Tuesday this week.] After my success with directness, I used momentum to build it into success. I was fully confident in myself during these couple of days so I [...]
Directness (Or Finding Magical Connection)
Back in March 2012, I flirted with many girls to systematically desensitize my fear of talking and flirting with strangers I’m attracted to. I reflected upon what I needed to improve. The problem in those interactions was that I had a mental block. I didn’t allow myself to directly offer whatever I wanted. I would [...]
Rejection Therapy Saved My Soul
Back in 2011, I participated in the 30 day Rejection Therapy challenge. In the past couple of months, it has gotten publicity. I wanted to write about it one final time because its incredible concept changed my life for good. Before, I used to be like many frustrated people unsure of how to meet people. [...]
Your Best Friend is Vulnerability
The theme of 2013 will be vulnerability. Vulnerability is your best friend because it’ll allow you to meet your best friend. When you allow yourself to freely express what you are, then it gets easier to meet your kind of people. Expression is mandatory to make a connection with someone. Any sort of expression takes [...]